My friend, ill call her Jazz, she is a very classy girl, very smart, and unpredictable. She met a guy eight years ago. He was sweet, kind, and good looking( to her). They decided to get married a year and four months after they met. The day of their wedding, the husband to be, realizes that Jazz forgot to invite one of his friends. He walked up to her and cusses her out and threatens to hurt her.This is the red flag. Jazz convinced herself that it was just a one time thing. He promised her it would never happen again. So she married him that same day. Her marriage ended two years ago, because Jazzs husband would not stop beating her. This is one example of a woman that could not manage to see the red flag. She was definately given a warning the day of her wedding ,why couldnt she see it?There is always a red flag that signals you to either seek help, or leave before somthing happens that leads to a tragic breakup. Maybe some women are blinded by love,or maybe they are in a state of denial.I’ve missed a couple of red flags myself leading to the downfall of my relationship, so I know that any woman is capable of doing it.

Can you all remember incidents in your past relationships that may have been red flags? How do you know whether to take the flag as a signal to leave, or take it as a warning, and is it ever ok to just forget about them and let it slide??